JoEllen Notte

JoEllen is a writer, speaker, researcher and mental health advocate whose work explores the impact of depression on sex and relationships. Since 2012 she has written about sex, mental health, and how none of us are broken on her award-winning site The Redhead Bedhead. JoEllen has led workshops nationwide on sexual communication, navigating consent, having casual sex kindly, and dating as an introvert. She has toured sex shops, spoken at length on dildos, and even started a sex school but she is happiest and most effective when writing and speaking on behalf of quiet people who have sex. Check out her video series on attending conferences as an introvert and her extensive writing on sex and depression. JoEllen has spoken at Clark College, University of Chicago, Woodhull's Sexual Freedom Summit, and the Playground ConferenceJoEllen's book The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversation We Aren’t Having is now available in paperback, ebook, and audiobook.

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Be a Sexy Safer Sex Superhero in 6 Steps
Be a Sexy Safer Sex Superhero in 6 Steps

If you want to play safe without spoiling the fun, all you need is a little preparation.

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It’s Not You: 4 Signs Your Partner’s Too Depressed to Have Sex
It’s Not You: 4 Signs Your Partner’s Too Depressed to Have Sex

No sex can feel like rejection. When it's caused by depression, it isn't.

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The Big Reveal: Meeting Your Partner’s Sex Toy
The Big Reveal: Meeting Your Partner’s Sex Toy

Meeting a partner's sex toy for the first time can be intimidating - but it can also be exciting, fun and super sexy!

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Hand Jobs for Grown Ups
Hand Jobs for Grown Ups

Hand jobs can be a fun, sexy experience with these amazing techniques.

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The Proof Is In: Women Like Casual Sex Just as Much as Men
The Proof Is In: Women Like Casual Sex Just as Much as Men

Casual sex is a choice that many women make...and that's okay! You shouldn't feel ashamed or guilty of your sexual desires or gratifications as long as they are consensual. Remember, protect yourself and your partner from STIs!

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