Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords
The Top 8 BDSM Myths – Debunked!
The Top 8 BDSM Myths – Debunked!

Don't let yourself fall for the myths and lump all of us into categories that are wrong.

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How to Ask Your Partner to Be Your Dominant
How to Ask Your Partner to Be Your Dominant

Talking to your partner about your desire to submit can be very difficult, but opening up can also be very rewarding.

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The Importance of Collars in BDSM
The Importance of Collars in BDSM

As with all things kink, there are no real standards when it comes to collars. Collars are different for everyone.

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Bondage: It’s More Than Just Rope
Bondage: It’s More Than Just Rope

Wanna be tied up? There are lots of fun and interesting options beyond rope.

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Coming to Terms With Kink and Violence: One Feminist’s View
Coming to Terms With Kink and Violence: One Feminist’s View

Violence as abuse and the appearance of violence in kink are completely different things. It takes time and effort to come to terms with what you've been taught by society and what works for you as a kinky person.

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