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Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords

Most of the myths people believe about kinky sex come from a place of shame and fear. Reject that and get your freak on with a willing partner.

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There are some commonalities in DD/lg that can set these relationships apart from other power exchange dynamics.

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No matter how you experience them or how rough you like it, forced orgasms are all about pleasure.

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Once we realize that sexual education is a lifelong pursuit, we can move past the awkward questions, fears of what’s “normal,” and faked pleasure to find something deeper and more meaningful - or at the very least more orgasms and better sex.

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My personal road to kinky town started with the first stroke of a fingertip along my clit and labia.

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