When my partner and I decided to be monogamous, we took everything we had learned as polyamorists with us.
The mutual dance of pleasure and the sharing of physical intimacy is about much more than 'getting off;' it represents a deeper manifestation of our true inner selves.
When you come from a curious place, questions can transform from being awkward and interrogative to being playful invitations.
Finding a good match in the vanilla world is hard; finding it on the kinky side can be even harder.
My spouse and I are in a committed relationship. We also enjoy sex with other people. And no, there's no drama.