Molly Lazarus

Molly Lazarus is a kink and sexuality writer based in the Bay Area. She dreams of a world where consent-loving hedonists can explore the depths of their depravity without fear of persecution or sexual abuse.

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Why Unconditional Love Is Bullshit, Especially in Kinky Relationships
Why Unconditional Love Is Bullshit, Especially in Kinky Relationships

When it comes to consent, respect and boundaries, conditional love is where it's at.

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Hypnokink: A Peek Inside the Sexy World of Erotic Hypnosis
Hypnokink: A Peek Inside the Sexy World of Erotic Hypnosis

Hypnosis can be desirable for BDSM tops seeking to influence the minds of their subs but it must be used with extreme caution.

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A Lil’ Kink with Your Coffee? Meet Wicked Grounds, SF’s Friendly Neighborhood BDSM Cafe
A Lil’ Kink with Your Coffee? Meet Wicked Grounds, SF’s Friendly Neighborhood BDSM Cafe

This Bay Area coffee shop is all about celebrating kink, including hard points for suspension bondage, dog bowls for puppy play, and a store full of sex toys and other goodies.

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10 Helpful Tips for Hosting a BDSM Munch
10 Helpful Tips for Hosting a BDSM Munch

If munches are hard to come by in your city, you can connect with local kinksters by setting up your own.

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First-Time Anal Too Painful for Your Partner? Here’s How to Help Them Enjoy It Next Time
First-Time Anal Too Painful for Your Partner? Here’s How to Help Them Enjoy It Next Time

Learning the art of giving great anal can help heal a past painful experience for a partner.

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