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Robin Zabiegalski

Robin Zabiegalski (they/them) is a queer, non-binary writer, editor, and movement instructor. They've been writing for Kinkly since 2017, and joined Kinkly's Editorial Team in early 2024. Their writing has also been published on xoJane, Heavy.com, Health Digest, Glam, Women.com, The Establishment, Sexual Being, The Tempest, and several other digital media publications. When Robin isn't writing they can be found practicing or teaching yoga, training or teaching Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, playing Fortnite with their partner or chasing their rambunctious kiddo.

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Articles by Robin Zabiegalski
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There's no denying that queer people need queer spaces but sometimes those spaces can be hard to navigate for people who don't look the part.

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Giving and Obtaining Consent: How to Give Your Kids the Lessons You Probably Never Got

Consent is an important concept. Here's how to talk to your kids about giving and obtaining consent.

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The Power of (Non-Sexual) Touch
The Power of (Non-Sexual) Touch

Americans tend to believe that physicality should be reserved for only the closest relationships. That can leave some people starved for touch.

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