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Ryn Pfeuffer

Ryn Pfeuffer is a versatile print and digital writer specializing in sex, lifestyle, and relationship topics. She got her start in the mid-90s at the Philadelphia Weekly, managing a 10-page section of the newspaper and more than 500 lonely hearts.Her professional stock skyrocketed when she started writing a saucy (and pre-Carrie-Bradshaw-era) dating advice column called “Ask Me Anything.” She appeared regularly on local radio stations and late-night TV as an expert on everything from grooming habits to threesomes.Over the past two decades, her work has appeared in more than 100 media outlets including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Globe and Mail, The Washington Post, WIRED, and Thrillist. She adopted a pseudonym and was AVN’s (Adult Video Network) first female porn reviewer – while penning children’s books at the same time.More recently, she is the author of 101 Ways to Rock Online Dating (2019). She lives in Seattle with her rescue dog, Mimi. You can find her on Twitter @rynpfeuffer or IG @ryn_says

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Articles by Ryn Pfeuffer
How Squirting Gets Tied to Self-Worth (and Why It Shouldn’t)
How Squirting Gets Tied to Self-Worth (and Why It Shouldn’t)

Squirting can be fun, but sex should be about pleasure, not performance

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A Step-by-Step Guide to Negotiating Consent
A Step-by-Step Guide to Negotiating Consent

Understanding consent is just the first step. Learning how to approach this conversation is the next one.

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Women’s History Month: 17 Women Who’ve Helped Us Have Better Sex
Women’s History Month: 17 Women Who’ve Helped Us Have Better Sex

These badass activists, feminists and all-around sex-positive people are the vanguard for sexual freedom.

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7 Kinky Sex Acts You Might Be Into (+ Expert Tips on How to Try Them)
7 Kinky Sex Acts You Might Be Into (+ Expert Tips on How to Try Them)

At least half of people are into kink, even if they've never tried it. How about you?

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Statistics Suggest Our Porn Tastes Are Getting Less Kinky
Statistics Suggest Our Porn Tastes Are Getting Less Kinky

Why would extreme-porn loving viewers turn to something more vanilla? Maybe that isn't what's happening at all ...

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