Ryn Pfeuffer

Ryn Pfeuffer is a versatile print and digital writer specializing in sex, lifestyle, and relationship topics. She got her start in the mid-90s at the Philadelphia Weekly, managing a 10-page section of the newspaper and more than 500 lonely hearts.Her professional stock skyrocketed when she started writing a saucy (and pre-Carrie-Bradshaw-era) dating advice column called “Ask Me Anything.” She appeared regularly on local radio stations and late-night TV as an expert on everything from grooming habits to threesomes.Over the past two decades, her work has appeared in more than 100 media outlets including Marie Claire, Playboy, Refinery29, The Globe and Mail, The Washington Post, WIRED, and Thrillist. She adopted a pseudonym and was AVN’s (Adult Video Network) first female porn reviewer – while penning children’s books at the same time.More recently, she is the author of 101 Ways to Rock Online Dating (2019). She lives in Seattle with her rescue dog, Mimi. You can find her on Twitter @rynpfeuffer or IG @ryn_says

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Articles by Ryn Pfeuffer
Quiz: Assess Your Smarts About Squirting
Quiz: Assess Your Smarts About Squirting

There are a whole lot of unknowns surrounding squirting.

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An Intro to E-Stim – and Toys!
An Intro to E-Stim – and Toys!

A little electricity can add a sex spark to play - not to mention the possibility of hands-free orgasms.

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How to Plan a Gang Bang
How to Plan a Gang Bang

All the logistics and (literal) moving parts can make group sex daunting. But it doesn't have to be.

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It’s Metamour Day! Here’s a Metamour Bill of Rights
It’s Metamour Day! Here’s a Metamour Bill of Rights

Even if we’re not in direct, regular contact, it sure is nice to share the joy of our shared partners and relationships. Happy Metamour Day!

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Couples’ Privilege Is a Thing and It’s a Toxic Experience for Poly Practitioners
Couples’ Privilege Is a Thing and It’s a Toxic Experience for Poly Practitioners

Each polyamorous relationship is as real and valid as the next. They just entail different levels of involvement and emotional connection.

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A Beginner’s Guide to Nipple Play
A Beginner’s Guide to Nipple Play

Nipples can often be overlooked. And they absolutely shouldn't be! Try these tips to spice up your foreplay with some super-hot nipple play.

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10 Sex Trends You Can Expect to See in 2019
10 Sex Trends You Can Expect to See in 2019

If these predictions hold water, 2019 is shaping up to be one very sexy - and sex positive - year.

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What It’s Like to Be Polyamorous Around the Holidays
What It’s Like to Be Polyamorous Around the Holidays

More partners means more people to spend the holidays with, right? Not necessarily ...

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Why a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell Relationship Is a Terrible Idea (From Someone Who’s Been There)
Why a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell Relationship Is a Terrible Idea (From Someone Who’s Been There)

Keeping secrets is inherently harmful and seems especially counter-intuitive in an open relationship.

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The Ultimate Sex-Positive Gift Guide
The Ultimate Sex-Positive Gift Guide

24 sex-positive presents for the coolest people on your list.

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The Key to Good Sex Isn’t Spontaneity – It’s Proper Planning
The Key to Good Sex Isn’t Spontaneity – It’s Proper Planning

When it comes to sex, those with the best-laid plans finish first.

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Behold! A Comfy Menstrual Cup You Can Wear During Intercourse
Behold! A Comfy Menstrual Cup You Can Wear During Intercourse

Menstrual cups have loads of benefits - and fans - but this one boasts an extra perk: comfortable, leak-free period sex.

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