We value your privacy

We use cookies to enhance your browsing experience, serve personalized ads or content, and analyze our traffic. By clicking "Accept All", you consent to our use of cookies.

Customize Consent Preferences

We use cookies to help you navigate efficiently and perform certain functions. You will find detailed information about all cookies under each consent category below.

The cookies that are categorized as "Necessary" are stored on your browser as they are essential for enabling the basic functionalities of the site. ... 

Always Active

Necessary cookies are required to enable the basic features of this site, such as providing secure log-in or adjusting your consent preferences. These cookies do not store any personally identifiable data.

No cookies to display.

Functional cookies help perform certain functionalities like sharing the content of the website on social media platforms, collecting feedback, and other third-party features.

No cookies to display.

Analytical cookies are used to understand how visitors interact with the website. These cookies help provide information on metrics such as the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc.

  • Cookie
    _ga
  • Duration
    26 months
  • Description

    Data Collected: Google Analytics collects data about your users’ interactions with the website. This includes page views, user journey, time spent on site, and other engagement metrics.

    Purpose of Cookie: The primary purpose of this cookie is to help website owners measure how users interact with website content. This includes understanding which pages are popular, how long users stay on the site, and what the bounce rate is.

    Duration of Data Stored: By default, Google Analytics retains data for 26 months. However, website owners can adjust this duration in their Google Analytics settings.

    Extent of Data Processing: Google Analytics processes this data to compile reports on website activity. This information can be used to improve the user experience.

    Google Analytics does not collect personally identifiable information. However, it does use cookies to collect anonymous data about a user’s visit to the site. This data is used to compile statistical reports on website activity

Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors.

No cookies to display.

Advertisement cookies are used to provide visitors with customized advertisements based on the pages you visited previously and to analyze the effectiveness of the ad campaigns.

  • Cookie
    _adbc
  • Duration
    180 days
  • Description

    Data Collected: This cookie is created when a user clicks on an ad and only contains data to identify the ad that was clicked.

    Purpose of Cookie: The cookie is used to allow AdButler.com’s customers to track ad conversions. It links a click on a particular ad to an action a user has taken.

    Duration of Data Stored: The data in the cookie is stored for 180 days.

    Extent of Data Processing: The data processing is limited to tracking ad conversions.

    More information: GDPR Cookie Policy from AdButler.

Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities. Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.Stella is the author of two books, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" and and "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes." Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

Connect:

Articles by Stella Harris
Gentle Femdom Ideas to Help You Explore Gentle Authority and Tender Dominance
Gentle Femdom Ideas to Help You Explore Gentle Authority and Tender Dominance

When people hear “Femdom” it often conjures ideas of a B-movie dominatrix, or perhaps a PVC-clad Rihanna brandishing a whip,...

ALL ARTICLES More Icon
How to Find a Threesome: The Ultimate Guide
How to Find a Threesome: The Ultimate Guide

Threesomes are a hot - and very common - fantasy. How to find a threesome and make it a reality involves knowing where to look, knowing how to act and knowing how to stay safe.

ALL ARTICLES More Icon
Welcome to the Dungeon: How to Join the BDSM Community
Welcome to the Dungeon: How to Join the BDSM Community

The BDSM community is not a black leather dreamland, but for those who come into it with open hearts and minds, it can be much more than a place for sex.

ALL ARTICLES More Icon
An Introduction to the Fascinating World of Predicament Bondage
An Introduction to the Fascinating World of Predicament Bondage

They say no choice is the wrong choice. Predicament bondage is a fascinating world that requires the bottom to make a choice...and pay the price.

ALL ARTICLES More Icon
11 Bondage Sex Positions from Simple to Extreme!
11 Bondage Sex Positions from Simple to Extreme!

Bondage is a very common kink -- it is the “B” in BDSM after all! Once you’re confident about how to play safe, try out the following fun bondage sex positions.

ALL ARTICLES More Icon