Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities. Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.Stella is the author of two books, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" and and "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes." Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

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When people hear “Femdom” it often conjures ideas of a B-movie dominatrix, or perhaps a PVC-clad Rihanna brandishing a whip,...

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Threesomes are a hot - and very common - fantasy. How to find a threesome and make it a reality involves knowing where to look, knowing how to act and knowing how to stay safe.

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The BDSM community is not a black leather dreamland, but for those who come into it with open hearts and minds, it can be much more than a place for sex.

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They say no choice is the wrong choice. Predicament bondage is a fascinating world that requires the bottom to make a choice...and pay the price.

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Bondage is a very common kink -- it is the “B” in BDSM after all! Once you’re confident about how to play safe, try out the following fun bondage sex positions.

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