Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities. Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.Stella is the author of two books, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" and and "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes." Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

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Articles by Stella Harris

Bondage can be fun for bodies of all sizes, genders and abilities--not just for slim, young cis-females.

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Anal sex with health considerations isn’t all that different from other kinds of sex. Know your body, communicate and take care of you!

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Sometimes it can be hard to just let go and enjoy. Here are some tips that will help you fully experience the pleasure and intimacy that oral sex has to offer.

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Not all online sex ed is created equal.

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Just like any other sexual contact, analingus presents a few potential health risks - but there are ways to mitigate them.

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Regardless of how you identify, it's all about enjoying yourself and actively participating with your partner(s).

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A generation that is sexually fulfilled and liberated will make changes that reach far beyond the bedroom.

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App controlled sex toys have pushed long-distance play to new heights of pleasure.

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Get to know these common terms before you start looking for a three-way or group play.

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Looking to start experimenting with harnesses and dildos? A strap-on blow job is a good place to start.

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Sex toys can do amazing things for your body. Here's how to throw off your fears and find one you'll love.

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Anal sex is one of the most common fantasies people have, but getting it right involves some preparation - and practice.

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