Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities. Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.Stella is the author of two books, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" and and "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes." Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

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The Rise of Online Sex and Relationship Support
The Rise of Online Sex and Relationship Support

Not all online sex ed is created equal.

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Rimming Risks – and How to Play Safer
Rimming Risks – and How to Play Safer

Just like any other sexual contact, analingus presents a few potential health risks - but there are ways to mitigate them.

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Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches
Power Play: The Differences Between Tops, Bottoms, and Switches

Regardless of how you identify, it's all about enjoying yourself and actively participating with your partner(s).

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The Future of Sex: Why Sex Will Be Better Than Ever
The Future of Sex: Why Sex Will Be Better Than Ever

A generation that is sexually fulfilled and liberated will make changes that reach far beyond the bedroom.

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Why Edging and Orgasm Control Make for Great Long-Distance Play
Why Edging and Orgasm Control Make for Great Long-Distance Play

App controlled sex toys have pushed long-distance play to new heights of pleasure.

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