Stella Harris

Stella Harris is a certified intimacy educator, coach, and mediator, who uses a variety of tools to guide and empower her clients and she teaches everything from pleasure anatomy, to communication skills, to kink and BDSM. Stella has appeared at conferences across the US and Canada, and regularly provides workshops and guest lectures to colleges and universities. Stella’s writing has appeared widely, including a weekly sex advice column in her local paper. Highlights of her media appearances include speaking as an expert on Banana Slug sex and appearing on the evening news discussing the importance of sex education in schools.Stella is the author of two books, "Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships" and and "The Ultimate Guide to Threesomes." Learn more at www.stellaharris.net or follow @stellaharriserotica on Instagram.

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Articles by Stella Harris
The Right – and Wrong – Way to Have a Threesome
The Right – and Wrong – Way to Have a Threesome

With multiple partners comes multiple desires and points of view.

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The Ins and Outs of Rope Bondage
The Ins and Outs of Rope Bondage

Tie me up, tie me down? Learn the basics of safe rope play

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Can’t Get Hard? 8 Tips for a Steamy, Sexy Good Time Anyway
Can’t Get Hard? 8 Tips for a Steamy, Sexy Good Time Anyway

Think that you can't be intimate with your partner because you can't get an erection? Think again.

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How Do You Define ‘Sex’?
How Do You Define ‘Sex’?

Sexual activity is more than penetrative sex. For the best experience, make sure that both you and your partner are on the same, sexy page!

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8 BDSM Tips – With a Twist
8 BDSM Tips – With a Twist

Forget about tools and tricks. Here's what really makes BDSM so hot.

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