Steph Auteri has written about sexuality for the Atlantic, VICE, Pacific Standard, the Washington Post, and other publications. Her more literary work has appeared in Poets & Writers, VQR, Creative Nonfiction, and elsewhere. She is a regular contributor to Book Riot, the Pure Romance Buzz blog, and the Feminist Book Club, the author of A DIRTY WORD, and the founder of Guerrilla Sex Ed.
Many people are most concerned with discretion when it comes to sex toy storage. But hygiene and safety are most important—there's no shame in owning a sexy stash!
Lots of lube, weed and a good vibrator might be a good start when you are wondering how to get your sexy back. But for lasting, meaningful connection, you are going to need more!
It's common to assume that there is one sexual standard - one level of normal - to which we should aspire. In reality, we're all different and we're all OK.