A fur saddle is a type of BDSM accessory designed to enhance role-playing scenarios that involve pet play or pony play, where one partner assumes the role of an animal, and the other acts as their owner or trainer. The fur saddle is worn by the "animal" partner, usually on their back, mimicking the function of a traditional saddle typically used on a horse.
Design and Materials
Fur saddles are usually made from soft, faux fur materials to provide comfort for both partners while still maintaining a luxurious or animalistic aesthetic. The fur covering adds to the overall sensory experience, appealing to those who enjoy tactile sensations. The saddle may also feature leather straps or buckles that secure it in place on the wearer, similar to how a real saddle would be fastened on a horse.
The feel, smell add look of leather is a very popular component to BDSM play, even if leather is not a main source of one's interest.
Role in Pet Play and Pony Play
In pet play, particularly pony play, the fur saddle serves both a practical and symbolic function. It allows the "owner" to ride or lead their "pet," enhancing the realism and immersion of the dom/sub, top/bottom scenario. The fur saddle also signifies a deep level of trust and intimacy between partners, as the wearer submits to being ridden or guided, while the other partner takes on a dominant, caring role.
Safety Considerations
As with all BDSM practices, safety and consent are paramount. Before incorporating a fur saddle into play, partners should communicate openly about their boundaries, limits, and expectations. It's important to ensure that the saddle is fitted correctly and does not cause discomfort or harm to the wearer, particularly in longer sessions. Regular check-ins are crucial to ensure that both partners are enjoying the experience and to address any discomfort immediately.