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Sex toys

The Most Realistic Dildos for Pleasure

If you love the look of a lifelike, throbbing shaft, why not make sure your sex toy encapsulates that? We're here to tell you: a lot of people love that look, and most realistic dildos are crafted to capture that erotic visual as best as possible.

With so many ultra realistic dildos out there, though, which ones are the best for you? In a sea of so many skin-tone dildos realistic, which one is going to meet YOUR needs the best?

Well, let us help narrow down your choices with some of our customer favorites from here on Kinkly Shop!

Best Realistic Silicone Dildos

If you want a truly realistic, body-safe feel, you want the Vixen Creations realistic silicone dildos. When covered with a condom, it can be nearly impossible to tell them from a lover's shaft; it's impressive!

Each one of these dildos is handcrafted by a small business in Austin, Texas. Made from their proprietary VixSkin material, these dual-density silicone dildos offer impressively realistic sensations. Their silicone is scent-free, taste-free, phthalate-free, and completely body safe. As a non-porous material, it can be sanitized, and you can expect the material to last for years with proper care. (The biggest risk to its safety are sharp objects like fingernails! Their ultra-realistic silicone is really soft - and your own fingernails can be a risk!)

If you know your play will include oral fun, we highly recommend realistic silicone dildos. Unlike some of their other material counterparts, 100% silicone dildos are taste-free and scent-free for a seamless experience.

Best Uncircumsized Vibrating Dildo

The Evolved Peek a Boo Vibrating Dildo in Light | Kinkly Shop

Most realistic dildos are circumsized and don't vibrate. The Evolved Peek A Boo Vibrating dildo stands out from the pack for its design that offers both! Its wide suction cup base offers the potential for hands-free play with an uncircumsized head and veiny shaft that really adds to the realism.

To ensure you get those vibrations exactly where you want them, the vibrations are focused in the tip of the dildo. The button at the base allows you to scroll through the 10 vibration modes, and with a backlit LED panel, you can even do it easily in the dark.

With waterproof, dual-density silicone material and a rechargeable design, it offers a whole lot of fun for those looking for uncircumsized vibrating dildos.

Best Budget Vibrating Dildo

Mr. Right Vibrator in Pink | Kinkly Shop

We get it; not every sex toy is right for every budget. If you're looking to explore new sensations without a big investment, we'd recommend the Mr. Right Vibrator. This playfully-colored realistic dildo offers incremental vibration speeds, allowing you to precisely control how much intensity you get with a twist of the dial at the base.

Battery-operated, you don't have to worry about where you use it; just pop in a fresh set of batteries if you're going for marathon sessions while camping. ;)

Best Realistic Dildos if You Like Them Large

Penis-owning porn stars tend to get a bit of a following for their shaft sizes. In the adult industry, their huge lengths are somewhat required. It's much easier to film sex between two people if there's more length that can reach between their bodies. This means that adult actors with long lengths are generally in huge demand in porn.

If ultra realistic dildos of huge lengths and girths appeal to you, you're going to love the Signature Cocks line.

The Signature Cocks line is chock full of extra-long lengths and super-wide girth penises. If you're someone who loves huge and ultra realistic dildos, it's hard to go wrong with an entire line of dildos molded directly from famous porn star's lengths and widths.

Most of the Signature Cocks line is made from Doc Johnson's proprietary UltraSkyn TPE material. This unique blend of TPE offers even more realism. With a firm core (that makes it easy to slide inside snug holes) and an extra-plushy exterior (to provide that life-like feel), it's ready to slide into any hole you have in mind. ;)

As an added bonus, every Signature Cocks dildo includes a Vac-U-Lock hole at the base. This allows you to add Vac-U-Lock attachments (like the included suction cup attachment!), use them with Vac-U-Lock toys, or add them onto Vac-U-Lock-enabled sex machines!

Best Twirling Realistic Dildo

GIF showing the rotating motion of the FemmeFunn Vortex Wireless Turbo Shaft | Kinkly Shop

Do you remember the "classic" rabbit vibrators with their rotating tips? While it can be hard to find that movement anymore, there are still a few ultra realistic dildos that offer it. Our favorite is the FemmeFunn Vortex Wireless Turbo Shaft. This unique silicone dildo has a veiny, realistic design that pairs perfectly with its 8 pleasure settings of vibration and rotation.

Best of all, it's remote-controlled! Control the realistic vibrating dildo's vibrations and tip twirling with a few buttons on the remote, ensuring you don't have to interrupt your play. (This can be extra helpful if you're taking advantage of that hands-free play with the suction cup!)

And if you're someone who loves rabbit vibrators, the Vortex Wireless Turbo Rabbit offers the same design as the Turbo Shaft but with an additional clitoral attachment for added dual pleasure.

Best Small Ultra Realistic Dildos

Vixen Creations Spur in Vanilla | Kinkly Shop

Wanting dildos realistic doesn't mean you have to want a huge one! While most realistic dildos have a diameter of at least 1.5", that isn't a requirement to being a realistic dildo. In fact, if you're looking for a slimmer one, we'd recommend the Vixen Creations Spur.

Made with the same realistic dildo and care as the larger VixSkin dildos, the Spur is smaller in size - perfect for those who love slimmer toys or want gentle penetration. The Spur's 4.75" length partners swimmingly with its 1.25" diameter, approachable for those who want something that runs slimmer and shorter than the average biological shaft.

The wide flared base makes Spur easy to hold during use, and it also makes it strap-on harness friendly and anal safe. It's a win-win all around!

What are Realistic Dildos Made Of?

Most realistic dildos are typically made from softer materials to add to the realism. This, of course, is not a requirement, and if you look, you can find realistic dildos made of glass and other firm materials. Not only can the shape of a biological human penis be pleasurable, but a lot of people find the visual hot - regardless of the material!

If you're looking for the best realistic dildos, though, you'll likely be sorting through options that are made from soft materials.

Common materials for realistic dildos include silicone, TPE, TPR, and PVC. All of these materials offer soft, plushier material densities, giving you more of that realistic skin feel that you're looking for.

As a secondary bonus, these softer materials can also absorb warmth. This means that, as you play with the dildo, it'll start to take on your body temperature, adding even more realism to your experience.

How are Realistic Dildos Made?

Every manufacturer has their own process for making realistic dildos. This will vary based on whether the dildo is lifecast or not.

Lifecast, essentially, means that your realistic dildos are molded from an actual person's real-life erection. In it, in a manufacturing setting, after achieving a firm erection, the lifecasted individual puts on a cock ring. With time of the essence, a team slides the erection into a mold, allowing the molding material to firm up around the individual's penis. This process can take anywhere from a minute to five minutes.

(There's a reason that most lifecast dildos are of porn stars! Not only is this where the demand is, but it can require a pretty firm control over your erection to make it through this entire process!)

Once that happens, the penis is carefully removed from the mold. If the mold looks perfect, they'll move onto the next step. If not, the process might be repeated a few times to ensure all of the delicate features of the shaft are perfectly captured.

The exact process of crafting the dildos from this mold will vary based on whether this is a small dildo crafter or a larger manufacturer who has a factory. The basic gist, however, is that this mold will be used as the template to create the lifecast dildo. A cleaned up, ready-for-production copy of the mold will be filled with the final dildo's material and allowed to cure. As it cures, the final dildo's material will take on the exact shape of the mold that it was allowed to cure in.

It's sorta like using a cake pan or making molded chocolate or jello!

And in the end, a lifecast dildo pops out, ready for your own personal pleasure.

(If you want to try making a lifecast version yourself, the Clone-A-Willy kit offers a kit that provides everything you need for small-scale lifecasting. Fair warning, though: it can take a few tries to get right. After all, you're not a professional dildo crafter!)

Kinkly Staff

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