Sex Is Part of Life
Sex is very much a part of every one of us, and it's completely natural. Our innermost sexual desires reflect who we are as people. It is an important core to any fulfilled and balanced individual. Sexual repression is out these days. Big time.
In the greater scheme of our individual realities, porn can serve to allow us to connect with the very things that we enjoy, yet haven't perhaps developed enough of an understanding of to be able to feel comfortable discussing with our playmates. Fetishes, group sex, anything at all - it can all be explored with the right porn flick.
Learning From Porn
Part of the reason porn gets such a bad rap is that there is so much of it out there and a lot of it is bad. There is quite a lot of crap on the Internet. Yet the beauty of the Internet is the ability to find anything and everything you want. It just may involve a bit of time and patience. Find what you're into, and if it costs a couple of bucks, so be it. I've learned a lot from porn; I've also learned a lot by making amateur videos of my own. There's such an abundance of amateur porn online now. You can find anything from sex on a surfboard or ATV to some seriously challenging positions performed by some very willing and able show ponies. I've been taking quite a few notes (and screen shots) of late, of things that even manage to impress me. And that's pretty cool.
As for that exception to things that I don't love about porn? Well, for the most part sex isn't anything like a porn flick in so many ways. Let it inspire you try some new things, but don't aim to imitate. (See: Porn Sex Vs. Real Sex (Explained Using Food)).
