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Getting into Character
Getting into character in front of your partner should be easy - you’re comfortable around him, right? But you’re comfortable being you, not an English maid. It’s not as hard as you think, and the whole experience can really be quite arousing if you just let go. Here are some tips on how to own your first role play experience:
Start off Simple
It may feel awkward for you coming into your own bedroom and addressing your partner as Mr. Howards, asking him how he’d like his sheets washed. Instead, find a role-play that’s a little easier on you. Start with something like a hooker. Wear a very sexy dress, and ask your man if he’d like to have a good time tonight. The line is probably not far from something you’ve said in the past, which will make it feel more natural to you. This time, however, try to throw in a few extra lines like What would you like me to do for you? and quote him prices. The sex will remain similar to normal, so it won’t be a huge jump into foreign territory. It is also a good idea to try your first role play in your own home. Changing too many variables at once can lead to a nerve racking experience, rather than a steamy one.
Feel Sexy
When you’re ready to try something a bit more dramatic, make sure you feel sexy. The key to a great role play is confidence in your role. If you want to buy a costume, make sure it fits, and try it on well before you plan to wear it for your partner. Walk around the house in it. Practice your role even. Just get used to the way you feel and look in the outfit. That way you’ll be able to picture it properly when you’re in front of your partner. If you've had a conversation with your partner about what fantasies turn him on, you'll be confident that you're fulfilling a fantasy and feel in control rather than guessing if he likes it or not. Own your role and you'll have him wrapped around your finger.
