Dick pics – as well as vag pics – are encouraged here. Of course, your partner has to want to receive them. (Consent is key!) But just think of their face when they surreptitiously check their phone during a meeting or on their coffee break, and there you are in all your glory. Pro tip: warn them early on they might receive sexts from you – that way they make sure no one is looking over their shoulder when the message comes through.
What other kinds of sexts can you send? Shared fantasies, acted out via a couple hundred characters on your phone. Kinky commands and plenty of “Yes, Sir/Ma'ams.” Want to make sure your kinky submissive is ready for you when you get home? Send them a text telling them to go to the restroom and edge themselves three times in the day. After a day like that, you'll be amazed at how quickly you find time to be together at the end of your day.
Only You and Your Partner Knows What's Under Your Clothes
I can remember the first time I was told to wear an anal plug to work. Holy hell, y'all, it was hot. There was the knowledge that I had an anal plug in at work. There was the fear that it may fall out (panties are a necessity with this one). There was the titillation that I was being kinky at work and none of my co-workers had a clue.
So what you can wear under your clothes?
- Nipple charms
- Cock rings
- Clamps – clitoral or nipple
- Anal plugs
- Remote mini-vibrators
- Special panties
For some, no panties at all is pretty daring. The sky is the limit on this one but remember that most things can't or shouldn't be worn for too long. Be prepared to take it off and conceal it from your co-workers. This is a good one to use with sexting, too. Send pictures throughout the day to your partner so you both of you stay on edge. (Get more kinky ideas in The Ultimate Submission: Remote-Controlled Sex Toys.)
