It Won’t Stop
Sometimes sex is sooo good you want to go at it again - refractory time be damned! When you want to repeat the performance multiple times to exhaustion before your feel satisfied, you know you've got it right.
It Puts You to Sleep
An insatiable desire for a rematch can be one sign of really great sex, but sometimes an amazing romp has just the opposite effect. You only need one good performance to turn your legs to Jell-O. Getting up off the bed feels like a chore. Your legs are shaking and/or feel rubbery. Your brain is incapable of thought beyond "Damn!" You've had it: Great sex. Up next: An amazing night's sleep.
It Makes You Emotional
I once had an experience with someone that brought about a surge of heavy emotions. Inexplicably, I found myself wanting to smile and cry simultaneously. I could only describe the experience as beautiful, and have never quite felt anything like it before or since. To feel so very connected to someone in the moment, and have your emotions be in such a flux afterward is often a sign of great sex - and a great connection!
It Makes You Laugh
Sex is great, but it isn’t like in the movies. Shit happens that no one can account for and in many cases, it's hilarious. When you're having great sex with a great partner, you should be comfortable enough to laugh about it. If the person I am with and I have the ability to laugh through whatever just happened, I know I just had a good time no matter how the sex turns out . Many people take sex so seriously, have high expectations, or are so insecure that they forget to have fun. You won't get fireworks and multiple orgasms every time, but if you're able to laugh through embarrassing moments, you'll probably have a blast anyway.


