The Champagne Room Position is a seated, rear-entry sex position. It ensures both partners are having a great time by including a sex toy to pleasure the receiving partner during sex. The Champagne Room position can be used for anal or vaginal sex.
To get into this sex position, the penetrating partner should sit on a chair. Once there, the receiving partner can slowly back onto the penetrating partner's lap with both partners aiming the penis (or strap-on dildo) for penetration.
The Champagne Room Position leaves both partners' hands-free. This makes it an easy position for adding sex toys, which provide additional clitoral or penile stimulation during intercourse.
Adding Sex Toys to the Champagne Room Position
Taking advantage of the penetrating partner's free hand, the Champagne Room position allows the receiving partner to get the delicious, orgasmic sensations of a sex toy during penetration!
While the bendable, all-gender Wildflower Enby 2 vibrator is shown, the Champagne Room position will work with all types of toys. With the extra space in front of your bodies, large toys, like wand massagers or penis strokers, can also be a good fit here. The only limitation will be the penetrating partner's arm length and strength.
It may be difficult for the penetrating partner to focus on holding a heavy, long sex toy in the right spot as the action gets going, but don't worry! The receiving partner can use their hands to take over the job at any point.
Using a sex toy on the receiving partner can have many benefits:
It offers more sensation
Many people can't orgasm from anal or vaginal sex alone. By adding in clitoral or penile pleasure, it can be easier for the receiving partner to orgasm during penetration (if they want to have an orgasm), ensuring everyone has a great time.
Synchronized orgasms are on the table
Since the penetrating partner will be setting the pace of the receiver's pleasure, the penetrating partner can ramp up or slow down the hand holding the sex toy as they are getting closer to orgasm. This can make synchronized orgasms a fantasy you can bring to life!
It's fun!
Really, who is ever going to be upset about more pleasure during sex?! This seated position leaves both partners' hands completely empty, offering even more options. The penetrating partner can leave their other free hand to pleasure the receiver's nipples or breasts. The receiving partner can also use their own hands to touch their partner or provide leverage for movement on top of the penetrating partner's lap.
Modifying the Champagne Room Position
If the receiving partner's feet can touch the ground, they can control the depth, angle, and rate of penetration. If their feet do not touch the ground, the penetrating partner can use their hands to move their partner or use the furniture they are sitting on as leverage to thrust.
Getting into the Champagne Room position is accessible for many people, but it may not be for everyone. If either partner has sensitive knees, the added weight and strain on the knees may not be a good fit. The position also requires the penetrating partner to support their partner's body weight on their lap and the receiving partner to facilitate some movement from the strength of their quads.
This position may also require some modifications if the penetrating partner has a large stomach or the receiving partner has a large bum. If that's the case, choose a chair that allows for the penetrating partner to recline further backwards. This may make it impossible for them to hold the sex toy on the receiver's body, but it should allow for more space between bodies to make penetration happen.
This position will not be an option for everyone, and that's okay if it isn't. The "goal" of sex is to enjoy pleasure and connection with your partner, and you can easily do that with hundreds of other sex positions that may better honor your bodies to make that happen.