The Supported 69 position uses a sex stool to make 69 easier for both partners!
To get into the Supported 69 position, the bottom partner lays flat on the floor, finding a way to fit comfortably underneath the sex stool of your choice. The XR Brands' Bangin' Bench is shown in this illustration. Once the bottom partner is in place, the top partner straddles the bottom partner's head, slowly leaning forward to place their upper body on top of the sex stool. When everyone's in place, both partners can then provide simultaneous oral sex while the sex stool supports the top partner's weight!
More about the Sex Stool Supported 69 Position
One of the most common complaints about the 69 position is that it can feel suffocating. For the person on bottom, the top partner's close proximity and weight on top of them can make it difficult to breathe. For the top partner, it can be difficult to get enough space to take a full breath without disrupting the oral sex they're giving, especially if giving a blowjob.
The Supported 69 sex position solves this with a creative use of a sex stool. The low, supportive platform offers a comfortable place for the top partner to rest their weight, and adds space between your bodies. This space makes it easier for both partners to breathe, and it reduces how much weight is placed on the bottom partner. Since the top partner can fully rest all of their body weight on it, it can also reduce pressure and strain on the top partner's knees, which is great for those with knee concerns.
The Sex Stool Supported 69 position can also be a great fit for partners who are still new to oral sex with one another. Since the sex stool adds a bit of space between your bodies, either partner can take a break to visually scan their partner's anatomy. This can make it easier to find the spots you're looking for (like the clitoris!) than if your face is literally covered by your partner's crotch. And since newer partners may feel less comfortable tapping out when they need a breather, the space between bodies in the Sex Stool Supported 69 can make it easier to take breaths when needed without interrupting the other person.
If you want to add even more stimulation to 69, this simultaneous oral sex variation is one of the better options. Since there's more space between bodies and most of the weight is being supported by the sex stool, this can be a great time to add sex toys. They can swap out for fatigued muscles, or they can be used alongside oral sex to hit multiple erogenous zones at once. The bottom partner's position makes it particularly easy to use anal toys on the top partner while still providing oral sex!
Modifying the Sex Stool Supported 69 Position
The angles of 69 may change a bit with sex furniture propping you up. The bottom partner may need to use a pillow or sex wedge to prop their head up a bit so they can reach their partner's pleasure spots. The top partner may need to lower their upper body a bit to get into the right spot to offer pleasure. Don't forget that you can move the sex stool around too. The top partner may find it easier to lean down if they move the sex stool further down towards their hips.
To get the most out of this position, it's important to choose a sex stool that works for your body and your partner's. The platform of the stool needs to be large enough for the top partner to comfortably rest their weight on it. At the same time, there needs to be a comfortable way for the bottom partner to maneuver themselves underneath the sex stool. If either you or your partner have larger bodies, some of the current sex stools on the market may not be a good fit, literally.
If that's the case, consider using a very sturdy, low table instead. Since you can select the table based on its width and size, you can find furniture that works best for both of your bodies. A coffee table or other sturdy table can work well for this position. For the top person's comfort, you might want to put an outdoor chair cushion, pillow, or blanket on top of the table.
While standard 69 may be an approachable sex position for bottom partners who are wheelchair users or have body paralysis, the Sex Stool Supported 69 position may not be. Depending on your sex stool design, it may require too much maneuverability for someone with limited mobility.
Even with modifications, the Supported 69 position may not be a good fit for some people. The reach required, from each partner, to overcome the distance to give oral sex can be irritating to upper backs and necks.
If this oral sex position isn't working for you, don't worry! There are hundreds of other sex positions out there that will better honor your bodies today. Since oral sex is all about enjoying yourselves, just select a position that makes that more likely to happen.
There are no rules that say the Sex Stool Supported 69 position needs to be one you enjoy tonight!
