Taking Time With Your Mind: Coaxing Your BDSM Fantasies

Oh, what a wonderful naughty BDSM world we live in these days. A world where I can beat bottoms, tease and taunt, and otherwise lead weak-hearted men (and women and anyone who doesn't identify within the gender binary) to serve me as I think best…. all on cam.

As we all know, our libidos are heated first and foremost by our minds. Sexual fantasies, the thought of a fetish (or two or five), maybe a word spoken that just brushes by your ear and gets you thinking, or something your lover suggests can set all pistons firing. And this is true for us all, whether you are kinky, like many of the subs slaves that come to me on LiveJasmin, or someone with not a kinky bone in your body. Although, it’s been my experience as a pro domme that everyone has a little kinky something they think about often enough that it plays as the main feature during their masturbatory sessions.

Although I show enough of myself on cam to tease you to blast off – and only I get to say when that blast off is… if I let you blast off at all – what my fans/friends/subs/slaves and even the mildly curious really come to me for is to make fantasies, especially BDSM fantasies, real; to take what is in a their heads and make them dance around their mental flames just enough to get heated but never really burnt.

And I so love playing with all of your minds.

Revealing your BDSM fantasies

I pride myself on not only knowing how to wield my whip and just how many cracks of it you deserve, but also on how to coax you to open up even wider, in more ways than one. I can convince you to tell me your secrets, reveal all the things that are lurking, sulking and bubbling in that stew of sexual aches you have, but have never had the opening to discuss or explore. You are safe confessing to me, and I will surely give you what we both know you need. I am always respectful of your needs.

But let’s be clear; I am a stern taskmaster. I am very good at determining where your limits are, how to push them, and how far I can go. My cam audience knows I do not let them off the hook.

I know this stuff is not always so easy to talk about, think about, let alone find. But that's why you come to me. Yes, I'm a hot, for sure. But there's more to this than liking the way I look. This is true of all domme-sub relationships. I hold power over you because you want me to, and you let me look deeply into your mind so I can know what you need before you even know you need it. And I will take you where I know you need to go. Because with me, your desires are safe and celebrated. Together, we will delve as deep as you like.

Trust me, you’ll be delighted, maybe a little but scared, but safe, because I take my time with your mind as well as your body.

MistressDilucca is a professional Dominatrix working as Cam Model for LiveJasmin. She's sharing her experiences as Guest Author on Kinkly.