What is the A-spot? Where is it located? How do I even look for it? These are all great questions, all of which we're about to answer for you. We're doing a deep dive (pun intended) on the Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone — also known as the A-spot or the Deep Spot. Not gonna lie: I find that term “deep spot” crazy hot.
We've got the answers you need to reach new heights of pleasure.
So let's get into it... the vagina, that is.
How many spots are there?!?
When I was in elementary school, we were taught that boys had a penis and girls had a vagina. Sure, that’s often true. But that’s definitely not the whole story.
Later, sex ed taught us that the vagina is inside something called a vulva. Within that there was a clitoris, a G-spot, and a urethra. Mind blowing right?
And once we actually started having sex, we learned that each person likes something a little different when it comes to sexual stimulation.
Still later, we learned that boy = penis and girl = vagina/vulva wasn’t that simple either. Sure, most people with penises are men and most people with vaginas/vulvas are women, but that's not always true.
The point here? We're always learning something new about bodies and sex, and it’s time once again to learn something new about the bodies of women and people assigned female at birth (AFAB).
What is the A-spot aka the Deep Spot?
If a clitoris can be likened to a penis, an A-spot is analogous to the prostate. Essentially it’s the female/AFAB version of the P-spot. It's an inner spot that, when stimulated, can feel super awesome and lead to increased production of lubrication.
Where is it?
The A-spot is located between the bladder and the cervix in a place called the anterior (front) fornix (one of two openings on either side of the vaginal walls). This Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone is above the G-spot, located deeper in the front wall of the vaginal opening.
According to medical journals, a doctor named Chua Chee Ann located the A-spot. What he was looking for, we do not know. What he found was a spot that, when stimulated, led to intense arousal and the “rapid onset of reflex vaginal lubrication” even in women and AFAB folks who had trouble becoming physically aroused. Cool, right?
As a side note, thanks to Chua Chee Ann for not naming his discovery after himself like that egomaniac Gräfenberg (for whom the G-spot is named). Imagine the audacity of naming a human body part after yourself, especially one that you don't even have! Then again, if a body part was named after me — I could potentially punch someone in the Wednes. NGL, that sounds hilarious.
Unlike the clitoris or the G-spot, which you can usually find by feeling around, the Deep Spot usually can’t be detected via touch. But when you hit it, you’ll know, or your partner will tell you.
How to Find the A-Spot
Like the G-spot, the Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone can’t really be reached by yourself while lying on your back. That’s where a curved sex toy or a knowledgeable partner can come in handy. Neither my husband nor I were even looking for it, but we found it one splendid evening all the same.
As luck would have it, the Deep Spot can be located with fingers, a sex toy, or sometimes a penis during penis in vagina sex. You know... if you’re into that sort of thing.
The search should begin the same way one would look for the G-spot — curled fingers or a curved sex toy inserted toward the front wall of the vagina. Then go in a little deeper and press upward. If A-spot stimulation is a win for you, you’ll know it when you feel it.
As with the G-spot, you won’t be able to find your own while lying down. A reclined seated position can work. Wearable sex toys are also good for this.
Keep in mind, the nerves in the vagina, clitoris and all those other fun spots are arranged slightly differently for everyone. The surrounding flesh and tissue differ as well. So, if you're hunting for this erogenous zone and don't find it exactly where you're expecting it to be, keep exploring as long as everyone involved is enjoying it.
Read More: Go Deep! The 8 Best Sex Positions for Deep Penetration
What Does an A-spot orgasm feel like?
In short: Awesome. I find this particular style of orgasm to be satisfying like a G-spot-focused orgasm but with an intense side of inevitable clitoral stimulation.
People who've experienced Deep Spot stimulation describe in various ways:
- Instant increased arousal and lubrication
- Deep pleasure that surpasses vaginal stimulation alone
- Instantaneous orgasm
- Pressure similar to needing to urinate
- Intense feeling of fullness
Some older studies support the idea that A-spot orgasm is essential in what docs refer to as vaginal orgasm. That same study disputes the existence of the G-spot, though. So, take this info with appropriate skepticism.
This raises an important point about orgasms in women and AFAB people in general. Sexual responses can vary greatly from one person to another — and even for the same person at different times of their life. Some people love intense stimulation on the clitoris, others can’t bear it. There are those who enjoy a hard fast pounding of the cervix, and others who would rather do without sex entirely than endure that.
So if you find the A-spot and it enhances your orgasm, we think that’s awesome. But it’s not a failing to not find it, or to find it and not love it. Part of great sex involves understanding your own body’s responses and then helping a partner understand your needs.
How to Stimulate the Deep Spot
Seeking a Deep Spot orgasm? Repeated stroking and light to moderate pressure is a common way to begin exploring A-spot stimulation. A sex toy that rotates can be a good option.
My friend “Marcie” describes her first A-spot orgasm, which led to her first experience with squirting as well.
“He was fingering me and it was... different. Not like hitting the G-spot but the same sensation deeper inside. It led to a leg-shaking orgasm. There was some pressure like I had to pee, but then I orgasmed instead.”
Marcie adds:
“After some experimentation he was able to figure out how to hit the same spot with his penis. ...It helps to tuck your knees toward your chest.”
Tucking your knees toward your chest shortens the length of the vagina, allowing for deeper penetration during intercourse. So, it makes sense that angling the penis or sex toy upward can facilitate hitting the Deep Spot.
Keep in mind...
How deep is the A-spot? Anything over three inches will get the job done. That means, a small wearable panty vibe can be an excellent way to experiment. I’m not sure I’d try this when I’m out and about though.
What Chua Chee Ann says about increased lubrication is true! Though, you should still use lube in the beginning for increased comfort.
As with trying any new sexual activity, discuss the particulars with your partner before you begin. Having a solid understanding of your goals and desires raises the comfort level and increases the odds of having a good experience.
While one can probably reach the A-spot with a straight implement rather than a curved one, a curved sex toy allows for A-spot exploration while avoiding the cervix. That’s a big plus for some.
If you’re feeling nervous or unsure about exploring the Deep Spot, that’s cool. We suggest trying to find it a time or two on your own, then trying with a partner as appropriate.
Read More: How to Have a Cervical Orgasm
The Bottom Line
The A-spot can be one chapter in your sexual repertoire. Seeking out this pleasure point to see how it works for you is a worthwhile endeavor — even if you discover that you don’t love it enough to try again.
Any sexual exploration can range from the triumphant to the “meh,” but many folks find it worth the effort. With a strong knowledge base, good communication, and enthusiastic consent all around, Deep Spot stimulation can be an unexpected addition to your foreplay game or to enhance a big finish.
