There's a whole world of sex toys out there, but it's no secret that most sex toys are designed for heterosexual couples. If you're looking to pleasure two penises or two vaginas, though, you might not find those toys to be a good fit for your needs. That's why we've put together a 2025 list of the best gay sex toys!
Designed for the needs of same-sex couples, gay sex toys pleasure similar sets of anatomy. While some of these toys are especially designed for simultaneous pleasure, a lot of them are single-pleasure toys that specifically work well for the needs of lesbian, gay, and queer couples.
What are the best gay sex toys? Well, let's jump right in:
Perfect Fit XPlay Breeder
If you want thicker penetration sensations but also don't want to give up the ability to enjoy that "money shot", the XPlay Breeder was made for you. This flexible, stretchy penis extender is open at the tip, offering thicker feels when you slide inside without disrupting ejaculation.
Simply slide your erection into the stretchy sleeve and enjoy the plush, textured sensations around the shaft. It adds girth for the receiver while the wearer enjoys the textured interior, sliding along their shaft, with every thrust.
Plus, with its cloudy design, you get a bit of an erotic sneak peek inside of the Breeder, seeing your partner's shaft through the material!
Together Toy
Designed specifically for two vagina-owning people, the Together Toy is the latest innovation in responsive sex tech. Remember those double-ended dildos of ol'? The Together Toy is their updated, pleasure-forward modern version.
The Together Toy has two insertable g-spot shafts. Inside each g-spot shaft is a squeeze-responsive transmitter alongside the vibrating motor. This allows both ends to respond to one another. As one partner squeezes, the other side ramps up its own vibrations in response, allowing both partners to "feel" what the other is feeling.
Plus, each one of the shafts has a clitoral arm for additional clitoral pleasure while enjoying the g-spot shafts.
It's like a double-ended rabbit vibrator with advanced responsive technology!
Nexus Simul8
Prostate pleasure with a side of penile sensation? That's what you get with the Nexus Simul8. Designed to hit multiple erogenous zones at once, the Simul8 offers hands-free prostate, testicle, and shaft pleasure while simultaneously leaving the shaft entirely free for additional pleasures. It does that through its unique design which attaches two stretchy cock rings to a prostate vibrator. Once the vibrations turn on, they run through the entire toy, pleasuring everywhere the sex toy touches!
If you've ever wanted to have sex with sensations on overload, this is the sex toy to provide it!
Arcwave Ion
While you can only use the Arcwave Ion one at a time, its unique, innovative sensations can make it worth waiting your turn. The Ion uses the same air suction technology that has made the Rose vibrator a viral sensation. Instead of clitoral pleasure, though, it turns that sensation to the penis, targeted gentle sucking pulses onto the frenulum of the shaft.
While the air suction works its magic, the vibrations surround the shaft, offering familiar vibrations alongside that targeted, brand new suction.
Just take the word from reviewer B.K.: "I wasn't sure if I'd like it at first but after a my second use I started to fall in love with it! I came much harder than I have in years."
Creature Cocks Dragon Grinder
Does someone enjoy grinding against pleasurable surfaces? If so, the Creature Cocks Dragon grinder can take that to the next level. A firm silicone pad attached to four straps, this sex toy wraps around any cylindrical object - and includes a pillow or your own thigh!
Once there, the grind-ee straddles the Dragon, pressing their erogenous zones against the textured surface. Sliding the hips back and forward offers pleasurable sensations entirely hands-free!
We're especially fond of this one for making out. Strap the Dragon onto a thigh and have the grind-ee straddle the thigh. Both partners can now make-out as the grind-ee rubs themselves back and forth on the vibrating toy.
Oh, and just so you know, the Dragon Grinder also includes a wireless remote control. ;)
Balldo
If you've never tried ballsex, the Balldo is here to help. While ballsex isn't exclusively designed for best gay men sex toys, it works just as well for gay couples as it does for heterosexual couples!
An award-winning design that won accolades upon its launch, the Balldo effectively functions as a dildo attachment for your balls. Simply slide the balls into the holster of the Balldo, and the Balldo allows you an easy, comfortable way to slide your balls into your partner's orifice.
Since the skin of the balls contain a ton of pleasurable nerve endings, this can let you experience intercourse in a whole new way. Plus, it's entirely separate from erection, allowing a different way to stay close with your partner no matter how your body is feeling.
The Balldo is also available in a vibrating version: the Viballdo.
Liberator BonBon
If you love watching your partner ride a toy, the BonBon is your magic tool for the best gay sex toys. Made from high-density foam, the BonBon holds any toy upright, no hands required, to sit on top of. Not only is this great for masturbation, but it can be a treat to watch your partner ride something from a brand new angle.
(Make-out fetishists, enjoy! If you both face each other on your knees, this can be a perfect position for making out while all of the action happens too!)
For those who are fantasizing about watching their partner slide inside a penis stroker, the Liberator Humphrey or Liberator On a Mission may be a better fit.
VeDO Grip
Blowjobs just got a helping hand with the VeDO Grip. This short, dual-ended stroker takes up less real estate on the shaft. This smaller design is intentional: it allows you to use your mouth or another hand alongside the VeDO Grip, becoming one of the best sex toys for gay men.
For more sensation, the Grip is also equipped with 10 modes of vibration. Simply use the button on the side of the Grip to bring the stroker to life with buzzing pleasure for a full hour.
If you want to get creative, you might be able to go head-to-head in the Grip. Its 3.6" length doesn't offer much room for movement, but it's an option if you're feeling feisty. ;)
Wet for Her RockHer 2.0
One of the only vibrators out there made for scissoring, the Wet for Her RockHer 2.0 is crafted to add even more pleasure to scissoring without getting in the way. It does that through its unique, looped clitoral anchor. Slide the g-spot vibrator inside the vagina, and the clitoral loop surrounds the clitoris.
This allows you and your partner to scissor, providing full skin-on-skin contact while the vibrator works its magic inside.
As an added bonus, the vibrations can also be felt around the loop, offering for additional vulva sensation and the occasional buzz on the clitoris.
Oxballs Glowhole
It's a lightshow for sex! The hollow design of the Oxballs Glowhole plug offers a fun, playful way to energize anal sex. Slide this best gay male sex toys inside the bum like a standard butt plug. Once there, the hollow interior allows a partner to slide inside of the plug (with lots of lube!). Turn on the included LED light to watch the lightshow happen between your bodies.
Not only does this plug provide an anal light show, but it also offers new sensations. The plushy, squishy material offers protection against friction at the entrance for the receiver while the giver enjoys a tighter, snugger fit.
For easy cleaning (and when you want to play in the dark ;) ), the LED light is removable from the plug.
(If you like the idea of a sexy lightshow but aren't an anal player, the Oxballs Glowdick offers the same fun in a cock ring!)
