Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords
Being a Daddy or Little Isn’t About Children
Being a Daddy or Little Isn’t About Children

Calling someone "Daddy" is no different than calling someone else "baby." Those who identify as a Daddy or a little are often misunderstood.

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Call It Klittra, Jilling, or Whatever You Want – At Least We’re Discussing Female Masturbation
Call It Klittra, Jilling, or Whatever You Want – At Least We’re Discussing Female Masturbation

Whatever you call it, it's talking about female masturbation that really matters.

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Why It’s Best to Think of BDSM Like a Kinky Buffet
Why It’s Best to Think of BDSM Like a Kinky Buffet

BDSM has so many great choices. It's not a lifestyle with hard and fast rules. It has so many great components that it's more like a kinky buffet!

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3 Ways to Get Kinky When Vanilla Life Intervenes
3 Ways to Get Kinky When Vanilla Life Intervenes

Creativity isn't just useful in being kinky. It's sometimes necessary for getting a kink-fix, too when your regular, vanilla life gets in the way.

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A Day in the Life of a 24/7 Submissive
A Day in the Life of a 24/7 Submissive

Living life as a submissive isn't what most people expect - and it isn't all about sex. Learn more here.

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