Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords

Not every encounter has to end in orgasm, but faking it only hurts you and your partner.

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Sub frenzy boils down to excitement, but that excitement can create problems because people are often blinded by the newness.

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A squirting orgasm can be a mind-blowing experience, but it's one that's often misunderstood - and it isn't for everyone.

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D/s relationships are best known for the power dynamic and kink, but the relationship is really nothing more than people going through the same daily struggles as everyone else.

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The soft touches from your partner while you have sex. The burn of desire between your legs. Good sexual energy creates sensations. Sensation play takes them to the next level.

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As long as something isn’t a hard limit, being open to trying new kinks can have unintended and potentially wonderful outcomes

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Bondage requires a certain amount of education before you jump in. So let's start with the very basics: terminology.

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If previous bath-time adventures failed to live up to your sexy expectations, try some of these tips before throwing in the towel.

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During orgasm, the part of our brain that takes care of self-control, fear, and anxiety completely shuts down.

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Handjobs are vastly underrated sexual acts, and some of us don’t try too terribly hard to get any better at them. We can do better!

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Edged orgasms are a sexy way to play while hitting on multiple kinks!

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Most of the myths people believe about kinky sex come from a place of shame and fear. Reject that and get your freak on with a willing partner.

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