Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.
There are some commonalities in DD/lg that can set these relationships apart from other power exchange dynamics.
ALL ARTICLESNo matter how you experience them or how rough you like it, forced orgasms are all about pleasure.
ALL ARTICLESOnce we realize that sexual education is a lifelong pursuit, we can move past the awkward questions, fears of what’s “normal,” and faked pleasure to find something deeper and more meaningful - or at the very least more orgasms and better sex.
ALL ARTICLESMy personal road to kinky town started with the first stroke of a fingertip along my clit and labia.
ALL ARTICLESWe're all unique, especially in BDSM. Just because you don't like all pain, or only one specific activity, doesn't make you less of a kinkster or a masochist, than the next person.
ALL ARTICLESYou may be surprised at how a BDSM dungeon operates and what goes on inside, especially if it's something on your kinky bucket list.
ALL ARTICLESHardcore kink is great for those who enjoy it, but there's a softer, gentler side to BDSM too.
ALL ARTICLESReal dominants don't all wear three-piece suits or leather. They don't throw out orders to total strangers. But they have many traits in common - and none of them are sexual or about the clothes they wear.
ALL ARTICLESIf you never mention your kinks, the answer is always no. Be brave, prepare yourself, and have the conversation. You never know where it might lead.
ALL ARTICLESDon't let yourself fall for the myths and lump all of us into categories that are wrong.
ALL ARTICLESTalking to your partner about your desire to submit can be very difficult, but opening up can also be very rewarding.
ALL ARTICLESAs with all things kink, there are no real standards when it comes to collars. Collars are different for everyone.
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