Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords
What Good Kinky and Vanilla Relationships Have in Common
What Good Kinky and Vanilla Relationships Have in Common

There are all kinds of relationship dynamics, but healthy relationships that work have all the same things in common.

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BDSM and Mental Health: When Kink Clears Your Head
BDSM and Mental Health: When Kink Clears Your Head

There's science behind kink's ability to clear your head - but it's no substitute for therapy.

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8 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Masturbation
8 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Masturbation

If we heard more of the positive benefits and spent less time pretending we’re not all wanking away, we'd all be healthier for it.

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6 Reasons Why Masturbation Isn’t Just Fun for One
6 Reasons Why Masturbation Isn’t Just Fun for One

Masturbation can be just as fun for couples as it can be by yourself!

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Why I Will Never Fake Another Orgasm
Why I Will Never Fake Another Orgasm

Not every encounter has to end in orgasm, but faking it only hurts you and your partner.

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