Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords
Heard of ‘Sub Frenzy’? Here’s How It Causes Problems in BDSM
Heard of ‘Sub Frenzy’? Here’s How It Causes Problems in BDSM

Sub frenzy boils down to excitement, but that excitement can create problems because people are often blinded by the newness.

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Pop Your Cork: The Ultimate Guide to Squirting Orgasms
Pop Your Cork: The Ultimate Guide to Squirting Orgasms

A squirting orgasm can be a mind-blowing experience, but it's one that's often misunderstood - and it isn't for everyone.

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11 Things That Really Happen in D/s Relationships
11 Things That Really Happen in D/s Relationships

D/s relationships are best known for the power dynamic and kink, but the relationship is really nothing more than people going through the same daily struggles as everyone else.

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The Ultimate Guide to Sensation Play
The Ultimate Guide to Sensation Play

The soft touches from your partner while you have sex. The burn of desire between your legs. Good sexual energy creates sensations. Sensation play takes them to the next level.

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I Wasn’t Into Bondage Until the First Time I Was Tied Up
I Wasn’t Into Bondage Until the First Time I Was Tied Up

As long as something isn’t a hard limit, being open to trying new kinks can have unintended and potentially wonderful outcomes

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