Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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Articles by Kayla Lords
You Don’t Have to Like All Types of Pain to Call Yourself a Masochist
You Don’t Have to Like All Types of Pain to Call Yourself a Masochist

We're all unique, especially in BDSM. Just because you don't like all pain, or only one specific activity, doesn't make you less of a kinkster or a masochist, than the next person.

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An Insider’s Look at the Mysterious World of BDSM Dungeons
An Insider’s Look at the Mysterious World of BDSM Dungeons

You may be surprised at how a BDSM dungeon operates and what goes on inside, especially if it's something on your kinky bucket list.

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Does BDSM Have to Be Hardcore?
Does BDSM Have to Be Hardcore?

Hardcore kink is great for those who enjoy it, but there's a softer, gentler side to BDSM too.

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What Does a Real Dominant Look Like?
What Does a Real Dominant Look Like?

Real dominants don't all wear three-piece suits or leather. They don't throw out orders to total strangers. But they have many traits in common - and none of them are sexual or about the clothes they wear.

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How to Have a Conversation About Kink With Your Partner
How to Have a Conversation About Kink With Your Partner

If you never mention your kinks, the answer is always no. Be brave, prepare yourself, and have the conversation. You never know where it might lead.

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