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Kayla Lords

Professional writer, sex blogger, erotic author, sexual submissive, and kinkster, Kayla writes more than is probably healthy over at A Sexual Being and overshares about the kinky and mundane side of her BDSM relationship. Her mission: to make BDSM, specifically Dominance and submission, less scary, less weird, and much more real and attainable for anyone willing to learn more.

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You Don’t Have to Like All Types of Pain to Call Yourself a Masochist

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Hardcore kink is great for those who enjoy it, but there's a softer, gentler side to BDSM too.

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What Does a Real Dominant Look Like?

Real dominants don't all wear three-piece suits or leather. They don't throw out orders to total strangers. But they have many traits in common - and none of them are sexual or about the clothes they wear.

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How to Have a Conversation About Kink With Your Partner
How to Have a Conversation About Kink With Your Partner

If you never mention your kinks, the answer is always no. Be brave, prepare yourself, and have the conversation. You never know where it might lead.

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