Bondage sex toys are toys that are used to restrain a partner and/or tease, punish or discipline them while they are restrained. This type of toy is widely used in the BDSM community and includes items such as restraints, spreader bars, nipple clamps and whips, as well as other basic sex toys like vibrators and butt plugs. Some adults enjoy adding elements of control into sex play to increase excitement.
Pain is used not to harm but to heighten sensation and therefore increase sexual pleasure.
Bondage sex toys are often collectively referred to as bondage equipment or bondage gear.
Bondage sex toys can be simple or complex. They range from nothing more than handcuffs or a simple piece of rope to more elaborate restraint systems such as bondage beds or metal cages.
No matter which bondage gear you use, however, safety is extremely important. When using bondage sex toys, always make sure that they do not cut off circulation to limbs or make it difficult to breathe.
Also, it's important that partners establish a safeword before any bondage play, which can be used to immediately stop any activity that is too painful or otherwise breaches one participant's comfort zone.
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