The easiest way to locate your pubococcygeus muscles is to attempt to stop urinating midstream without contracting your buttocks, abdominal muscles, or thighs. Once you've stopped the flow for a few seconds, then relax and continue urinating. You've just performed your first Kegel exercise!
Once you're familiar with these muscles, you can contract and release them at any time. For maximum impact, experts recommend holding contractions for 10 seconds. Once you have achieved this, experts suggest performing 10 to 20 Kegels three times a day, holding each one for 10 seconds.
When a woman performs Kegels during intercourse, she increases the blood flow to her genitals. This gives her a tighter grip on her partner's penis, which feels amazing for him, and intensifies the contractions she experiences during orgasm. Performing Kegels during masturbation can also improve a solo session.