For a nipplegasm to occur, oxytocin must be released in the brain with nipple stimulation. The release of oxytocin causes blood to flow to the genitals and the genitals to contract, leading to orgasm.
Oral stimulation through licking, sucking, and nibbling is one of the most effective ways to give your partner a nipplegasm. Rubbing, squeezing, and flicking the nipples can also cause a nipplegasm. The nipples can be stimulated with your hands, other body parts, or soft fabrics. As heat increases blood flow and makes orgasm easier, blowing warm air or putting warm water on the nipples can make nipplegasms happen faster or stronger. Ask your partner what they like as everyone is different. Whatever you’re doing, it’s usually best to start slowly and gently, then increase the intensity as the body warms up.
While the term nipplegasm refers to the nipples, any orgasm caused by stimulation of any part of the breast can be termed a nipplegasm. The area just above the areola can be every bit as sensitive as the nipples.
Most people never have nipplegasms. While exploring the nipples can be fun, you shouldn’t feel any pressure to orgasm through nipple stimulation.