"Riding St. George" is a term often used in BDSM contexts, and it generally refers to a position or act where a submissive individual, he or she who plays bottom or slave in a dominant/submissive relationship, straddles or "rides" their dominant partner. The name suggests a playful reference to Saint George, a figure from Christian mythology often depicted riding a horse while slaying a dragon. In a BDSM or sexual context, this can translate to a power dynamic where the submissive "rides" the dominant, symbolizing a reversal of typical roles.
Context and Usage
This term is commonly used in scenes where the submissive takes a more active or forward position while still maintaining their submissive role. In some cases, it may imply a kind of symbolic or playful physical manifestation of "topping from the bottom," where the submissive appears physically in control (such as riding their partner) but is still mentally or emotionally following the dominant's lead. This dynamic can vary widely depending on the couple’s negotiated power play and preferences.
Safety and Communication
As with all BDSM activities, clear communication and consent are crucial. Before engaging in a scene involving "Riding St. George," partners should discuss boundaries, physical comfort levels, and the intended power dynamics. This ensures that both individuals are comfortable with the role reversal or specific interaction and that the dominant partner is still respected in their role, even if they are being physically ridden.
Mutual respect, aftercare, and checking in after the scene are vital aspects of maintaining a healthy and consensual BDSM relationship.
