Role reversal sees participants acting in a way that's opposite their gender's expected traditional gender norms. Role reversal focuses on behaviors, relationship dynamics, and communication. As role reversal is based on the expected behavior from society at large, the exact role reversal behaviors will vary based on the region you're in.
In practice, in a Western country with United States norms, this may look like:
- A woman managing the household's finances with the husband needing to ask permission for any purchases.
- A man being "little spoon" during cuddle positions.
- Masculine-looking women and feminine-looking men.
- Women carrying men in "traditional" romantic positions.
- Men that are shorter than women and need to tilt their chin up to kiss a taller woman.
- Strong women.
- Slim, lithe men.
- Gifting a man a box of chocolates or flowers.
- Women into "masculine" hobbies like woodworking, metalworking, or fishing.
- Men into "feminine" hobbies like knitting, embroidery, baking, or flower arranging.
People into role reversal may not be into femdom. Femdom includes kink activities, and people into role reversal may not be into any BDSM or kink; they may purely enjoy the idea of swapping traditional gender roles. Someone into role reversal with a female domination slant may refer to this interest as "gentle femdom" (gfd) instead.
Role reversal reinforces a binary view of gender. People who are non-binary or do not identify with the gender spectrum may find it difficult to enjoy role reversal.
"Role reversal" may also refer to pegging and/or a vulva-owning person using a strap-on harness to penetrate a penis-owning person.
More About Role Reversal
While role reversal can be considered a kink or fetish, it doesn't have to be. It, instead, can be viewed as a relationship style. Some people may enjoy being more masculine or more feminine, and they may be attracted to partners who behave in a more feminine or masculine manner.
The market offers an extended variety of toys used for role reversal. These are usually designed to enhance the comfort and pleasure of both partners. For example, women can wear a "strapless" strap-on to anally penetrate the man. This entails inserting a dildo into the vagina and using the outer end of the toy to penetrate the man. Alternatively, couples can also invest in a strap-on dildo where the female attaches a harness around her lower body. Some male anal toys are uniquely curved to easily reach and stimulate the prostrate.
There are a multitude of positions that individuals can adopt during role reversal sex with the most popular one being "doggy-style" sex. Other positions include, but are not limited to, sideways or woman-on-top.
