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Wokefishing

Wokefishing is a dating term that refers to someone pretending to hold progressive or socially conscious beliefs, such as being supportive of feminism, LGBTQ+ rights, racial justice, or environmental activism, in order to attract a romantic or sexual partner. The term is a combination of "woke," which refers to being aware of social injustices and inequalities, and "catfishing," which is deceiving someone by presenting a false identity online.

Wokefishing can occur in various dating settings, both online and offline, and involves someone presenting themselves as more politically or socially aligned with a target than they actually are. The goal is often to appear more attractive to individuals who prioritize social justice and activism in their relationships, or are indeed attracted to this or that agenda.

Why It Happens

Some people use Wokefishing as a tactic to seem more appealing, knowing that many daters today are drawn to partners who share their values. They may want to avoid being perceived as outdated or dismissive of important social issues. In some cases, Wokefishing may not even consciously realize they are lying, but they might exaggerate or pretend to agree with progressive ideals to fit in or avoid confrontation.

The Risks of Wokefishing

Wokefishing can be problematic for several reasons:

  • Deception: People are misled into believing their partner shares fundamental beliefs, which can cause significant emotional harm when the truth comes out.
  • Erosion of Trust: Relationships rely on honesty and authenticity. Discovering that a partner has been Wokefishing can undermine trust and lead to the relationship breaking down.
  • Social Impact: It trivializes the values of those who genuinely care about progressive causes, making it harder for people to feel secure in dating environments that prioritize social awareness.

How to Avoid Wokefishing

To avoid falling for Wokefishing, it's essential to prioritize open communication and ask probing questions about your partner's values. Look for consistent actions that match their words, as genuine commitment to progressive ideals is often reflected in everyday behavior, not just in conversation.

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