Gear Up
Once you’ve gotten the basics down, you can invest in some fun extras. Lube is a must if you’re planning to extend your edging beyond one or two rounds. You can even get fancy and try a full-fledged edging kit for men that features a water-based lube, an anti-chafing lotion, delay and plumping creams, and a full-sized plush masturbator.
Switch Up the Stimulation
Experiment with more indirect stimulation; you’re aiming for slow and steady pleasure rather than a quick build up. For women, this might mean taking a break from clitoral stimulation to focus instead on G-spot or A-spot stimulation. Try out different rhythms, breathing techniques and movements to get familiar with how your body responds to different forms of touch.
Communication Is Key
Edging with a partner can be a great way of gaining a deeper awareness of your partner’s body while discovering new techniques for pleasuring each other. As the edger, pay close attention to your partner’s verbal and non-verbal signals during stimulation. As the edgee, give your partner feedback on your arousal level - or how close you are feeling to climax - and explore the sensations of your body as you play on the edge.
Give Your Partner a Hand
When edging with a partner, using your hands will typically give you better control of the pressure, location and speed of stimulation, more than any other body part. If you’ve been relying on penetration play for a long time, it might be a good time to get reacquainted with the art of the hand job.
