1) Make it your scene! If you want threesomes to be more than a one-time thing, it can be worth expanding your social circle. Do a search online and in just about ever city you’ll find meet-ups for every special interest. Just remember that many of these groups are for building community, not for cruising. So start by making friends. Not only will you be more likely to run into people who will be up for threesomes, you’re also likely to learn some new communication skills as well as some new sexy tips and tricks.
2) Give your current friend group a chance to surprise you. If you’re not used to talking about sex with your friends, there’s a chance you already have threesome friends and you just don’t know it. Try throwing an erotica reading party (these work well over video chat, too!) or get together to watch a sexy storytelling show (also available online!) These activities will give people an ice breaker to talk about what they’re into themselves, and you might find out you already have friends you can play with, or people who can introduce you to local sex positive communities.
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3) Get online! There are tons of dating app options these days and several even cater specifically to folks looking for threesomes. The great thing about this option is that you can easily find people who you know want the same thing as you, which can save you the awkwardness of screening for such a specific desire from a more general audience.
