Keep It Casual
Casual is the name of the game. Never hook up with an ex who may still love you, a crush who has been pining over you, a coworker, or a roommate. This can lead to hurt feelings and damaged friendships. Instead, seek a lustful encounter outside of your immediate social circle. Try installing the Tinder app or approaching a sexy stranger. When you do find someone who piques your interest, be upfront about your situation and what you're after. (Get more tips in Hookups Without Hangups: How to Keep Casual Sex Ethical, Drama-Free and Fun.)
Safer Sex Is a Must
Maybe you just left a long-term relationship where you didn’t need to use a condom. Maybe you’re so upset that your emotions are clouding your judgement. Don’t lose sight of reality during this tumultuous time. The last thing you want or need is a sexually transmitted disease or unwanted pregnancy. Carry contraception with you. Safety first!
Explore Another Version of Yourself
Be you, but experiment with different facets of your personality. Think of this as a more authentic version of role-play where you forget about your last relationship, stay in the moment, try new moves, say new lines and adopt a more romanticized or mysterious interpretation of your self. By doing so, your chances of having fun and showing your new playmate a great time are much greater.
Open Your Mind
Take an inventory of your past partners. What did they have in common? Do you have a type? Were they all tall, blonde and quiet? Now is the time to mix things up. Make an effort to introduce yourself to someone completely different. Open yourself up to the endless possibilities that exist in this world. Adventure awaits.
