I’m going to invest the $100 in my sexuality. Just as sex has no expiration date, neither should our commitment to our needs and honoring ourselves. We can do this in several ways.
Appreciation of the Body
- A massage, pedicure, and manicure—Take pleasure in how the body looks will help us feel well cared for and that’s sexy.
- Join a gym—I did this because working out gets the blood flowing to our muscles, the brain, and our sexual organs. It’s a feel-good high that makes me feel energized and sexier because I’m making myself a priority.
- Schedule a boudoir photography session—They’re designed to make you feel sexy and beautiful. It can be a fabulous gift for yourself or a loved one
Investing in Your Sex Life
- Schedule a session with a bodyworker, a sex coach, or therapist if you experience challenges related to your sexuality or just want to expand your capacity for pleasure. That could be the extra boost to help you get clear on what you want, how to express it, or how to release negative thoughts that hold you back from feeling pleasure.
- Accessorize! What items might make you feel sexier? Do you want to indulge in sexy panties or a lacy bra? Need some satin sheets or new lotions? Lusting after a new sex toy? Name one thing that you’ve fantasized about and that you want to try. For me, those items are a new garter belt and a pair of nice black heels that would serve for intimate occasions as well as going out on the town.
- If you have a partner, start a conversation about what you want—or what the two of you might enjoy. This could be fun. You’ll be communicating your commitment to your mutual pleasure and inviting your partner’s participation in your sexuality.
Couple's Activities
- Couple's massage—A couple's massage is sexy and relaxing all at the same time.
- Go shopping together—Invite your partner to give their input on your purchases.
- Plan a sexy date night.
- Couple's therapy may be a good investment if you’re having some issues.
