Find the G-spot
The G-spot has become the holy grail of female pleasure, both for women and their partners. For years, the clitoris was considered the only trigger for female orgasm (at least officially). Then in 1950, a physician by the name of Ernst Grafenberg found a mysterious patch of pleasure-producing tissue hidden within the vagina. Stimulating this spot produces a very different kind of orgasm, and may even cause squirting. You or your partner can explore this area manually (you’ll find this spongy tissue on the front wall of the vagina), or in positions such as doggie style or woman on top. Or, try out a G-spot vibrator.
Read: Pop Your Cork: The Ultimate Guide to Squirting Orgasms
Oh, and if you've already found your G-spot, consider conquering another hot spot you haven't mastered yet.
Indulge a Fantasy
If you can’t share your deepest, darkest sexual desires with a trusted sexual partner, you’ll probably never be truly satisfied in the sack. So, whether you’re longing for sexy lingerie, hankering to be hog-tied or breathless about trying a little BDSM, bring it up with your partner and work on incorporating it into your repertoire. Fantasy is half the fun - don’t leave it out! (Read up on one common fantasy in Why Bondage Can Be So Much Fun.)
Indulge Your Partner’s Fantasy
Now here’s the thing about sexual fantasies: They’re all about give and take. Come to think of it, that’s a prerequisite for any healthy sexual relationship. If you’re going to unload about your sexual quirks to your partner and expect him or her to fulfill your every desire, you’ll have to be willing to do the same. I’m not saying you should feel pressured to do everything your partner wants if you aren't comfortable with it, but you do have to be open to expanding your comfort zone. That isn’t always easy, but with some good communication, you’ll be glad you did.
