To get into this position, the focal-point partner lays down flat on their back. This position may be easiest for someone who has limited mobility. And, to maximize everyone's comfort, we recommend laying down on a soft, padded surface like a bed or piece of sex furniture.
More About Double Cowgirl Threesome Position
The Double Cowgirl facilitates a lot of flexibility for interaction while simultaneously providing continuous physical pleasure for everyone involved. For example, the partners on top can make out or otherwise touch each other. Alternatively, the partners on top can face away from one another and have no interaction at all. While the position, as illustrated, shows one person receiving penetration, that isn't required for this position. If penetration is desired, the laying partner can easily wear a strap-on harness to provide penetration. However, you can modify this position for alternative stimulation. Some suggestions for doing this include:
- Have the laying partner hold a wand massager in place—and both the bottom partner and the "receiving" partner can share its broad head for stimulation.
- Have the laying partner hold other sex toys, like a penis stroker or a Wild Flower Enby 2, on their thigh for the "receiving" partner to grind on.
- Have the laying partner use their free hands to stimulate the receiving partner's clitoris or penis.
- Use a couple's vibrator, like the We-Vibe Chorus or the Hot Octopuss Jett, to achieve hands-free pleasure. (A warning, though: The vibrations added to the intensity of the experience may cause the laying partner to orgasm or ejaculate earlier than desired.)
There will be a lot of weight sitting on top of the laying person's body in this position. If the weight is too much, consider having the two receiving partners squat over the bottom person's body—or consider taking turns to alleviate some of the weight on the bottom person. If you have access to a sex swing (or simply a ceiling hardpoint), one (or both) of the partners on top can support some of their body weight with their arms. (The Swinging Cowgirl position will give you a good idea of how this is possible.)
While enjoying Double Cowgirl, be aware that facesitting can be dangerous if done incorrectly. Ensure the laying partner has a way to communicate if they need the receiving partner to lift up—especially if they are holding a toy or have their hands otherwise occupied. The Double Cowgirl position can be particularly fantastic for power exchange scenarios. Because the person lying down has a built-in sense of "service" as their body is "used" to pleasure two people, this threesome sex position can be particularly great for living out any submission/service fantasies. It can also be fantastic for anyone with objectification fantasies.
