This is a great form of foreplay: use the vibrator with your partner and let them use it on you. It not only helps to get the blood flowing, but also brings a different element to the foreplay, which is always a great thing to have.
There are so many great ways to get more comfortable for you. I would like everyone to know that vibrators are not just for vulva owners, penis owners can take advantage of using them also! Some ways are under your testicles, down the shaft, on the head, this can let you get your first one off if you feel you may want to start that way. By the way, vibrators are wonderful for nipples...nipple play is for all people. (wink)
In this time for vibrators, there are so many different ones that can bring you some great comfort. If you want to just have it external, there are some great options, or look for something that can be used internally too, if that appeals. You' ll find vibrators from 3 speeds to 19 speeds (smiles), app control so you can have your partner get you comfortable from far away... what fun will that be? Next-level stuff!
All in all, try them out see what works for you have one for solo play & couples play. Be sure to have your favorite lubricant on the deck, which is always a great help with any toy play.