Have a Seat...And Love It!
One of the ways we're constantly bombarded with negative sexual energy is the idea that the "perfect" body is the body that will have the best sex. If you are slim and fit, you will have and deserve the best sex possible. Anyone who doesn't fit that mold is disenfranchised from the world of great sex. Of course, this is complete bullshit. Anyone can have great sex and everyone deserves great sex! For far too long, society and the media protrayed fat folk as non-sexual and undeserving of great sex. Big people have even been portrayed as killers who accidentally smother their partners during sex in film and television. These types of stigma and stereotypical portrayals can make people reticent to try new things. Yet, fat facesitting is a thing, a damn sexy thing, and is something you shouldn't be afraid to try!
Dressed for Sexcess
As this is coming out during the winter holiday season, many folks deal with a literal obstacle to enjoying sexytime: alone time and space. When you're visiting or hosting, getting moments to yourself, or even a room for some time, can be tricky. This doesn't mean you must altogether forgo sexy moments. If possible, sure, sneak off and shuck your clothes for sexy shenanigans. If that is totally impossible, embrace the lost art of dry humping. Whether you're going for orgasm or not, rubbing and caressing through clothing can be more innocent looking...but just as hot!
Inspiration Everywhere
Inspiration for embarking on new and interesting sexual fun can come from a variety of different sources. Ya got yer Internet. Ya got yer long-term relationship. Ya got yer porn. Ya got yer steamy Hollywood fantasy. Sexual inspiration can come from anywhere or anything...even a former Buddhist monk from the 1930s! Combining poetry, mindfulness, and reflection, The Passion Book by Gendun Chopel sounds like a must-read in the coming year.
