For those who are on the fence about whether to experiment with a new fantasy, there's one very safe way to enjoy some of the elements of a threesome without all the fuss: Simulate it with sex toys.
Can a sex toy stand in for partner No.3?
A sex toy can never replace a person, but it does give couples the opportunity to get a better idea of what they're looking for in a threesome fantasy, and to communicate those things with their partners. It's also a way to test drive you and your partner's feelings about new types of play before bringing another person into the mix.
Whether you’re fantasizing about double penetration, watching your partner or having your partner watch you, sex toys offer plenty of options. So let's run through some of the common threesome fantasies and how you can enjoy a simulated experience, whether as a precursor to the real thing, or something new and fun all on its own. (That part's up to you!)
The Double Penetration Fantasy
Double penetration is a common fantasy that comes with threesomes. There are a few ways to simulate this, but a dildo, an anal plug or beads, or a vibrator can all contribute. For example, try using a rabbit vibe like the OhMiBod Fuse while your partner works the back door for you!
Watching Each Other Perform
Watching your partner can be so sexy, but rather than watch them with another partner, why not watch them enjoy a sex toy? In terms of penetrative toys, if you’re going for a threesome vibe, nothing beats a realistic dildo. But you can also use a vibrator or, if you're watching a partner with a penis, a top-quality masturbator like the Fleshlight Launch, which can be paired with sleeves molded from porn stars (now how's THAT for a threesome fantasy?)
