- It works as intended. While every sex toy isn't made for every body, we only recommend sex toys that provide the sensations they claim to provide.
- It's as body-safe as possible. For insertable toys, this might mean medical-grade silicone - or stainless steel! For external toys, this might mean plastics or phthalate-free TPR. This also means the majority of these toys are scent-free too!
- Customers love them! While your body is unique to you, crowdsourcing opinions helps us curate the selection of toys on Kinkly Shop - and this list! We're recommending some of the most well-loved (and best-selling!) toys out there!
- Staff loves them! In many cases, the toys you see on this list are well-loved by members of our staff. We don't just talk the talk - we use the sex toys too!
Looking for our other 2023 gift guides? Check out our Top Gifts for People With Vulvas, Top Gifts for Different, Kinkier or More Challenging Sex Positions and 20 Sex-Positive Gifts That Aren't Sex Toys.
How We Chose These ProductsThere are hundreds of thousands of different sex toys out there. (Really! We're not exaggerating!) But out of those options, we curate this list with a few important factors in mind: |
For Unique Stroking Sensations: Tenga Spinner

- THE best-selling toy on all of Kinkly Shop
- 2019 Reddot Design Award winner
- 9 variations at a budget-friendly price; collect them all!
- Included drying stand doubles as a storage case
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For Hands-Free Vibrations: Hot Octopuss Jett

- Long cord on the remote makes for comfortable use of the remote; no straining required!
- Pop the two vibrators out of the silicone harness to use them on other parts of the body - or with a partner!
- Battery operated to ensure you never have to deal with waiting for a toy to recharge
- Treble and Bass Technology lets you choose your perfect mix of buzzy/rumbly sensations
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To Hit Multiple Spots at Once: Nexus Simul8 - Stroker Edition

- Prostate-stroking tip to stimulate the p-spot while you kick back and enjoy!
- Targeted prostate massager with dual-loop cock ring
- Leaves the entire shaft open for even more pleasure!
- Additional vibration motor in the base offers perineum and penis pleasure with 6 vibration modes
- Control the vibration motor and stroking motor separately for 39 pleasure combinations
- Rechargeable and waterproof for easy care












