Cozy Up
Adequate foreplay is an essential component to great sex, but it’s worth putting in a little extra effort if comfort sex is what you’re after. After all, part of being comfortable involves getting physically close to your partner and enjoying each other’s company and bodies. Take your time to cover every inch of each other and revel in all that skin-on-skin contact. It’ll help you both feel more relaxed, connected and ready to go.
Get Comfortable
Sex positions like the overpass or the plow are great when you’re looking to build your sexual repertoire. And they can be fun, and exhilarating and great for your ego. But let’s be honest: Struggling to get things to ... line up ... in the most challenging sex positions is really hard work. Plus, while spicing things up has its benefits, working harder doesn’t necessarily lead to a bigger, better orgasm. If you can orgasm while balancing on your head, more power to you, but most people just aren’t built like that.
Use Props
If it’s comfy sex you’re seeking, pick a position that’s familiar, that tends to work consistently for both of you, and that you can both get really comfortable in. One of the best ways to do this is to add props, such as pillows and bolsters, or, better yet, sex furniture. A simple Wedge or Ramp can turn the simplest, most comfortable sex positions into a simply amazing experience. Or go all out and invest in some really luxurious sex furniture. The more comfortable you both feel, the longer you can go at it. When you can prevent your back from aching or his arm from falling asleep, you’ll be able to focus on each other’s pleasure. That’s when beautiful things start to happen. (Check out Ducky Doolittle's review of the Liberator Flip Ramp. Guess what? She loves it!)
