If that precise moment of orgasm is part of your kink, finding last-minute sex partners doesn't have to be on your to-do list anymore (unless you want it there!). Thanks to the wonders of technology, manufacturers have equipped certain dildos with ejaculating features to ensure that your toy can blow its load just like the real thing - only you get to control when it happens! These unique toys allow you to experience penetration for as long as you want - and then end the moment with an explosive and squirting finish!
Compared to other toys, squirting, or ejaculating, dildos are fairly rare. While lots of regular dildos, very few manufacturers have created squirting dildos. As a result, choosing a squirting dildo requires even more caution; you really want to make sure you get a dildo that has been well-designed and will create pleasure - not frustration. Want to make sure you get a good one? Follow some of these guidelines.
Think About Toy Materials
Many squirting dildos are made from lower-quality materials. While I can't explain the reason for this, it's a regular occurrence. This does make squirting dildos more affordable, but over time, it means you're going to replace your sex toy more often as well. Silicone is the highest-quality material for any sex toy, but you can also find squirting dildos in jelly, PVC, or lower-quality materials. Remember that some porous materials (like jelly or PVC) can be much harder to truly get clean and sterilize, and with something that includes an interior tubing system, you might want to err on the side of as much cleanliness as possible. However, this depends mostly on your budget. Go for the highest quality material you can afford. (Get more info in Sex Toy Safety: A Guide to Materials.)
Concern Yourself with Size
Lots of squirting dildos seem to have a pretty large girth and length. This is so they can accommodate the entire squirting structure internally. This means you need to pay extra attention to the size and width of the toy to ensure that it's within your comfort zone. If you're unsure if you can take a particular size, make sure to get a tape measure and measure it out. For comparison, the average human penis length is between 5.5 and 6.3 inches with a girth of between 4.7 to 5.1 inches when erect. This gives you a starting point to judge the size of your new, potential squirting dildo.
Size Up Squirt Volume
Certain squirting dildos will hold different amounts. If there's a specific amount of squirting that you require, make sure the dildo you choose is up to the job.
Think About Delivery
Each squirting dildo is going to have a different way to "deliver" its money shot, but most will use some sort of a squeeze-bulb or syringe. If you have a preference toward how long the liquid tube is or what type of squeeze bulb you'll be using, you'll want to find an ejaculating dildo that matches your preference. Some product photos can make it hard to see the ejaculate-delivery system, so you might have to do a bit of hunting to find out how long the tubing is or what the squeeze bulb looks like.
Contemplate Cleaning Concerns
One of the biggest things to consider about a squirting dildo is how you're going to keep it clean. Since it may ruin part of the effect to use a condom with your ejaculating toy, you want a toy that will be easy to clean after you've used it. Check into how the toy is built. Is there an easy way to flush the interior tubing with soapy water? What little crevices around the tube exit or entrance are you going to need to clean with a toothpick or toothbrush? Is the toy a body-safe material that can be sterilized if you want the most hygienic cleaning possible? (Learn more in Keeping It Clean: Top Tips for Sex Toy Sanitation.)
Read Up On Reviews
Reviews are one of the most important things to look at when selecting your favorite squirting dildos. While manufacturers want to sell the toy, reviewers will just want to tell you their experience. This will help you know if the toy suits your needs. (Get the scoop on the Web's top toy reviewers. Check out our Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2015.)
Learn about Other Special Features
The last thing you want to consider is the type of thing that you'd want to consider for any dildo purchase: what are the special features you'd like? If you want your dildo to come in the shower with you, waterproof capabilities would be good. For those that want to play hands-free, look for a suction cup base. Want to use it for strap-on use? Remember to find one with a good, flared base. Think of what you'd like to use your dildo for and make sure to select added features that compliment that. (You can read all about squirting dildos and their features over at Betty's Toy Box in The Joys of Squirting Dildos.)
Keeping these things in mind, look through the selection of ejaculating dildos online to find one that best works for what you want it for. You might have to experiment with a couple different brands and styles to find what you really want. That's OK; it's part of the adventure. Happy squirting!