Misconceptions About Asexuality
Long cast aside as a sexual minority, many people aren't even aware of asexuality; those who are aware tend to be confused. Is it just a hormonal imbalance? The wrong partner? A form of social insecurity?
It might even be confusing for somebody who has discovered asexuality and might be pondering the possibility of just not being interested in sex themselves. In a world that constantly bombards people with sex, even asexuals tend to look at themselves and wonder just what might be wrong with them.
Why can I not get hard on purpose? Am I just not looking deep enough? What if there is something that is physically wrong with me?
The Spectrum of Asexuality
These are many of the questions that roll through the mind of someone who might be a member of the asexual spectrum. Asexual is a broad categorization of all the Aces out there. In fact, the types of asexuals found on the spectrum are quite diverse. Some are heteromantic. Some are homoromantic. Others are completely aromantic.
And while everybody else around them has their fun, has kids, and pursues new ways finding sexual healing, the Aces stand like a boulder in the middle of a rolling ocean, constantly assailed and yet never moving. They stay fixed to that single point, one outside of sexual tension and want.
Asexuality Getting More Public Attention
Although LGBT rights became headline news, asexuality has long been ignored by the media and society. Slowly, however, the plight of the Aces is starting to come to the public's attention. As most of the Western world embraces the fact that gays, lesbians, and even pansexual couples have every right to exist and love each other the way they want to, they continue to look at asexuality with confusion. Perhaps it has something to do with the fact that most humans don’t normally think in negatives. Therefore, the absence of something, even sexual desire, is more difficult to grasp.
