A mommy kink can play out in a number of key ways, including:
- Nurturing: Mommies can be nurturing to their submissives. They might cuddle them, comfort them, stroke their hair, nurse them or care for them in a number of ways.
- Punishment/BDSM Play: Being a mommy may also involve punishing a submissive when they break key rules and boundaries. These are typically consensual types of BDSM play that the couple enjoys, such as spanking, restraints, tease and denial, force orgasms, all sorts of other types of play that fall under dominant/submissive play.
- Rules and Boundaries: Because the mommy is a dominant, she may have rules for her little to follow. This may include how the submissive dresses, behaves or goes about their day. If the rules are broken, it might mean punishment.
- Self Expression: Couples in this dynamic may choose various ways to express their roles. This may include the way they speak to each other, the way they dress when carrying out their roles and the activities they enjoy while in these roles.